Jennifer’s writing

All my life, I have thought it was a good practice to find someone who was very good at something I wanted to learn and watch them in action. The same thing is true for writing. Interacting with other writers will help you improve in many ways. Here are a few ideas why reaching out to other writers is a good idea.

We all need connections. Having a mentor, or even better a community of mentors gives us a chance to ask questions and brainstorm ideas. Writers all need encouragement. When we put our writing out for the public to read it can leave us feeling raw. Encouragement from other writers can be a balm to the soul.

We can learn through other’s failures. When I first started writing I made so many mistakes, but I was lucky that some kind writers told me what I was doing wrong and how to fix it. I still have so much to learn which is why I am always reading more advice from writers. Failure is a great teacher but allow others to help you avoid it as much as you can.

Writers can help you find a spot for your writing. I have learned so much while I have been on Medium because writers are so willing to share where they write and what they use to be successful. Read the posts that will help you with your writing and share some of your knowledge to help others.

Writers can teach you to be better. Reading as much as you can whether it is from the library, a bookstore, or an online site can teach you to be better. If you are curious enough and an avid reader you will continue to grow. Take a class and share your work with others.

We have an amazing community as writers. Continue to have a growth mentality, stay curious, and keep interacting with others.

When we think about gratitude we usually are considering what we have right now, but today I saw something on social media that I thought was so true. There are some very important things to be thankful for besides our current possessions.

Be grateful for what is left. Do you have trouble letting go of something, or walking away even when you know it is toxic to you? I do. I always feel as if I’m quitting, maybe it’s me or if I try harder I can find the joy in something draining me. I took karate classes at the same dojo for six years. You would probably think that any issues I had in these classes were physical, but several issues with people at the dojo caused me a lot of emotional upheaval. I should have walked away from the dojo and the toxic relationships, but I didn’t want to quit until the situation became unbearable and my family begged me to leave. I can look back now and be grateful for what I learned and how much stronger the situation made me, and I can also be grateful that I no longer am involved in it.

Be grateful for what has stayed. I am grateful for the good friends and family who are always there when I need them and for our shared joy. I am grateful for all the amazing things that I continue to be able to do.

Be grateful for what’s to come. Do you manifest what you want to see happen in your future? I have a sign on my desk that says, “Always believe something wonderful is about to happen.” It brings me joy to wonder what new adventure is waiting around the corner.

Every now and then I feel a little lost. Life becomes heavy, the emotions are swirling, and the negative voices are whispering in my ear. Running saves me and always has. It is something I can always count on to soothe me. It has helped me stay physically fit, but the effects it has had on my mental health have been even greater.

I am a crazy cross between an introvert and an extrovert. I love talking to people and listening to their stories, but at a certain point, I need to retreat to somewhere quiet to regroup and recharge. Running allows me to do that. I can head out for a run and let my mind go blank and rest. During a few miles, I can take in what is around me without having to assess emotions or react in any way. I can just be.

There have been a few tumultuous times in my life when I thought my feelings would overwhelm me, but I turned to running and found the peace I needed. I ran out anger and frustration when I didn’t understand my husband’s addiction, and I ran through my fear and sadness when my son had a brain operation when he was a week old. I have cried and laughed during runs, and always finished feeling better.

There is something restorative in nature, and that’s another reason that I enjoy heading out for a run. I can take in the beauty around me and running allows me to open myself up to the sounds and sights around me. I stay in our neighborhood on many of my runs, and this allows me to interact with all my neighbors. It also allows me to see things I might not normally have seen like the giant hawk that decided to rest for a few minutes on the neighbor’s mailbox. I was able to come mere feet from him to take a picture, and he could have cared less. He was majestic.

I receive so many gifts through running. The mornings when I manage to get up before dawn and the sky is full of stars is a gift. One morning, my neighbor was out with his dog and when I stopped for a drink he pointed out all the stars by name. I had a chance to share a quiet moment with him as he shared something he was passionate about. I love runs when a gentle rain is falling, or in the fall when the leaves are drifting past me. I always feel that I am experiencing something special on those runs.

Running also has saved me because of the connections it has allowed me to make. At every race, I meet at least one new person and runners are notoriously nice people. I have met my best friends through running, and I cannot imagine life without them.

I injured my knee last year, had an MRI, and went to the orthopedist for the diagnosis. When I came home I said to my husband, “I tore my meniscus.” I swear he went pale because he knew that meant no running for quite a while. Of course, I knew I would miss running, but I told myself I would run again. I had to believe that because running helps me so much with both my mental and physical health. A year later, I am so grateful to be running again and enjoying every minute!

There are a lot of great resources out there for writers, and I’m sure different ones work better depending on what type of writing you do, but here are a few that have been crucial for me.

Interacting with other writers

I have learned much from interacting with other writers and listening to advice and comments. You can do that through a blog or online sites. When you go to spots where authors are selling their books take some time to chat with them.

Some books with contacts and good advice

The Christian Writer’s Marget Guide by Steve Laube

The Children’s Writer’s and Illustrator’s Market

Writers’ and Artists’ Yearbook

Writer’s Market

Writer’s groups on Facebook

Writers helping writers https://www.facebook.com/groups/27659251025

Writers of Georgia https://www.facebook.com/groups/13405436233

The Writer’s Circle https://www.facebook.com/writerscircle

You can find many more by typing writer’s groups in the search bar.

Online sites

This site is a treasure trove! https://writershelpingwriters.net/resources-for-writers/

Writing magazines

Poets and Writers

Writer’s Digest

The Writer

Writers’ Forum

These are only a few resources, but I hope they help you.

If you have decided what you want to write, and what type of writer you will be the next step is to start the writing adventure. How to start can seem overwhelming to new writers, so here is an easy-to-follow process that I hope helps you.

· Find your content. There is material to write about everywhere. When you are around others actively listen to what they are saying. What are the topics of their conversations? Could you solve some of the problems they are talking about by writing about them? What do you notice around you? What are some issues in your community, or elsewhere that you would like to address? Do you want to share some personal experiences? Is there a story in the news you want to talk about? Would you like to highlight someone or something in your community? There are so many possibilities.

· Write great queries. Once you have written something a query is your attempt to sell it to an editor if having your work published is your goal. Research how to write one that looks professional highlights your quality as a writer, and can convince an editor that your story is good.

· Where will you find your audience? If you do not want to share your writing it can stay in your journal or computer, but if you would like to see it published there are a variety of spots where it can be shared. Every town has local newspapers and magazines. In the first few pages, there is a page called the masthead that lists the contacts and e-mail addresses. Write to the editors with your ideas. Most local media is always looking for good content, and this is a great way to be published. Go to bookstores and look in the magazine section. Which magazines have content that you could have written? Make sure your story is a good fit for that publisher. Trying to sell an article on the Best Way To Grow Lettuce would not be a good fit for A Dog’s Life magazine.

There are a lot of online platforms to write for. Here are a few.

Medium www.medium.com

Newsbreak www.newsbreak.com

Here is a link to many more opportunities https://www.jeffbullas.com/are-you-a-content-writer-10-amazing-sites-that-will-pay-you-for-your-writing/

· Keep good documentation. Keep track of what you have sent to whom and what response you received. Keep contact information updated, and definitely keep track of the income you are making from the writing.

· Keep learning and improving. Read writing books and interact with other authors. Ask questions. Facebook has some great writer’s groups to join.

This is a controversial subject because writers deserve to be paid for their work, but unfortunately, we are often offered a chance to be published without pay. I would say it is a good idea to write for free in two situations.

The first example of when I think it is appropriate to write for free is when you need to build a portfolio of published work. Editors and publishers often want to see clips of your writing or see proof that you are an established writer. You want to create a writer’s footprint so you can be easily found in an internet search. Writing for free is an easy way to create this portfolio. Most local media is looking for content, so ask local newspapers and magazines if you can write for them.

The second time I think it is okay to write for free is when you want to support a cause. I write a free column about fitness for a local ministry. It is a small way to help my community.

After you have created clips and established a writing resume you should realize that your time and work have value, and you should be paid for your talents. Always ask yourself where is your time best spent. If you want to spend it writing for free then that is your choice, but it is also okay to expect payment for services rendered.

This is the first in a blog/video series called A Writer’s Life. Through the blog series, I will give you information on the various aspects of being a writer. This first piece is something to consider before you commit to a writing life.

You might have been thinking about doing some writing and wondering what it involves and if you would be good at it. Let me give you a few points to consider.

• You should like to write. If you are only thinking that this might be a good way to earn some extra cash, but you don’t enjoy the idea of writing on a regular basis, this might not be for you.
• You need to be patient. It takes time to find followers and build an audience. Very few writers are huge successes overnight.
• Consistency is key. Not only does practicing your craft make you better, but it also helps others notice you. Your audience wants more and when you can provide that they will spread the word.
• Be willing to learn and grow even when you can call yourself a veteran writer. You never want to feel that you have learned everything because improving is always possible. Read other writer’s advice and writing. Find out what other people do to be successful.
• Be willing to be vulnerable. When you begin to publish your work you will be opening yourself up to criticism and judgment, but you also could be helping a myriad of people in more ways than you know. Words are powerful and your words could potentially change someone’s life.
• Observe and listen. Listen to the stories around you. Watch people and read the news. All of that will help your writing.
• Don’t give up. There will be days when you wonder if you are any good at writing. It is when you allow negativity to whisper in your ear. Kick those negative thoughts to the curb and keep going.
• Have a why. Why are you writing? There isn’t a right or wrong answer. It’s whatever makes you want to express yourself through words. Don’t lose sight of the why.